Introduction
Mazi Umntanakho – ‘Know your child’
Methods
Study Design
Study Settings, Participants and Recruitment
Province | Programme offered by organisation | Group | Groups | na |
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Round 1 | ||||
Western Cape | 1. Home-based programme for caregivers of children not attending early care and education services, to promote early childhood development | Urban 1 (U1) | 3 | 17 |
Urban 2 (U2) | 3 | 17 | ||
Rural 1 (R1) | 2 | 10 | ||
Rural 2 (R2) | 2 | 7b | ||
Round 2 | ||||
Gauteng | 2. Community-based programme to support pregnant mothers, and mothers of young children | Peri-urban 1 & 2 (PU1&2) | 1 | 10 |
3. Community-based programme to promote health and early childhood development with young women during pregnancy, infancy and early childhood | Urban 3 (U3) | 3 | 15 | |
KwaZulu-Natal | 4. Home-based stimulation programme to promote early childhood development, and other community-based activities to promote early literacy | Rural 3 (R3) | 1 | 19b |
5. Community-based programme to promote early childhood development, including play groups | Rural 4 (R4) | 2 | 9 | |
Limpopo | 6. Health facility-based community health worker programme to promote maternal and child health | Rural 5 (R5) | 3 | 50 |
Procedures
Data Analysis
Researchers’ Positionality
Results
Themes | Sub-themes | Illustrative quote |
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Nurturing care framework components | ||
Responsive caregiving | Caregiver attitudes | “Sometimes, you find that the parent is not interested, even when you come to the house, they are not in the mood for you.” (R2) |
Sensitivity to challenges | “…the community out there have this thing that we are working with children so, for them, they think their grants will be taken away or we are going to have their children taken away…” (R1) | |
Lack of connection | “that happens a lot, almost like a gap between the parent and the child, like there is a lack of communication, almost like it is hard for the parent of the child to connect.” (U3) | |
Norms and beliefs | “And the way we were raised, our mothers used to shout at us a lot… with our parents, we didn’t even know they loved us because of how they were treating us.” (U1) | |
Caregiver and family challenges | “Kids are left with grannies, you find that the granny is too old, sometimes she sleeps the whole day, and the child ends up having to look for the granny.” (R3) | |
Safety and security | Protective factors | “There are those parents that you can see really enjoy this whole thing because like they’re doing this for their children, like they’re grateful for that mere fact that there’s someone that comes and helps their child with things relating to school” (U1) |
Substance abuse | “Most of our children, they are living in families that the mother or most of the people in the home they are drinking alcohol. So they don’t have time to notice what is happening to the children.” (R3) | |
Economic challenges | “The ones that are very poverty stricken, and because of that, they don’t actually help the child grow and they are more focused on the stressful side on their life.” (R4) | |
Neglect, abuse and violence | “Some children stay in what we call horror houses. There is no electricity in there and the windows are broken…you go into the house and you cannot see anything in that house.” (U2) | |
Adequate nutrition and good health | Basic needs not met | “When the mothers are using social grant money on alcohol, clothes, beauty, and drugs, kids suffer…not having food to eat and having any clothes to wear.” (PU1&2) |
System challenges | “Because even in our clinics, our local clinics…they have this thing of saying if the child is not developing well for that age, they are going to say ‘no give it time, she will come along’…I don’t even know that there are services where you can take the child.” (U3) | |
Opportunities for early learning | Limited resources | “Sometimes they say ‘we don’t have crayons for the children, or we don’t have pencils’.” (U2) |
Caregivers’ limited education and literacy | “The children are living with their grannies. Most of the grannies who are raising their grandchildren are illiterate.” (R3) | |
Child challenges | Internalising challenges | “But when you say tell me…Tell me how you are feeling, they can’t express themselves.” (R4) |
Externalising challenges | “…this one, he will believe that everything, you need to solve it with violence, maybe beating someone.” (PU1&2) |
Responsive Caregiving
Caregiver attitudes
“Sometimes get in and the caregiver is not in the mood for you. Sometimes you get in the caregiver is busy with the phone’s not even answering you. Sometimes you see the kid is not in the right situation, but you can’t say nothing. The caregiver is not in the mood to answer you. Sometimes it’s rude. Sometimes. You can’t even the caregiver is right is working with you. So, it depends, you go to different people.” (U1)
“a child grows up in a very poor household, parent is distant…they don’t even have interest in the child’s upbringing or education…we work with the parent, we try and redirect the parent’s mindset on how important it is for education at an early age.” (U2)
“Yes, even when you go for a visit, they will ask: “what am I going to get out of this?” and then you have to sit there and explain that it’s for the benefit of the child.” (R2)
Sensitivity to challenges
“For me, I must say that in our communities, people have got those beliefs, so because you have been working with these communities for a long time, and we have tried to interact and some of them, they are very difficult to accept, maybe like, if the child has got the behaviour like bullying other children, if the people who are working with the child are trying to talk about it, the parent doesn’t receive it well, and then sometimes they just take their child out of the program and they say I will keep my child at home.” (R4)
“Do you know that when you ask the parents too many questions, they’ll tell you that you want to report them to the department of social development?” (R2)
Lack of connection
“These challenges that we are talking about, where children end up facing but are unable talk about them. Parents must give themselves time to spend with their children. They must give themselves time to talk to their children. When they see that something is upsetting their children, they must talk to them with love and find out what is the problem. In this way a child will be able to express themselves. When parents shout at their children instead of opening up and being comfortable, these children end up being scared and hold and unable to express their feelings because parents are always angry at their children. They should show love to their children, build a relationship and bond with them so that their children can be more comfortable and express themselves. If they don’t have a good relationship with them, children come across problems along the way but will not tell their parents because are not paying attention to them, they are always busy with other things.” (R5)
Norms and beliefs
“Maybe it has to do with the environment where they black community grows up in, that an adult is always an adult, and a child is always a child. So you can’t just say or feel like communicating what you want to communicate with the parent, because of that age gap. But then we have found a lot parents that find it weird that a child would ask certain questions where it is something that the child is curious about.” (U3)
“We don’t have inside us to care for children because even if the child comes with wanting to show you, if you are busy washing dishes you can say I’ll see that later and even later you don’t bother to say okay show me that paper…” (R3)
“…I can’t remember my mom saying to us I love you, so it wasn’t easy to say it to my child because I didn’t receive that as a child…I think even when we were young we were not allowed to express our feelings because if you try and express your feelings that you show that you are rude to the family, I think uh we grew up like that and now it’s just a shame to share feeling they think no this child is being rude now, you’re not supposed to say that to me because I am an adult…there’s not the luxury of expressing emotions or even the cultural appropriateness of doing that.” (R3)
“There is a stigma…that is why they don’t want to stand up and find help for their children, probably you have been bewitched.” (U3)
Caregiver and family challenges
“For them it’s nothing it’s not important and they are not aware that if their mental health is not okay that actually starts affecting their actual health. So most of the participants or people in [community name] as a whole are not really aware their emotions, they don’t know the importance of mental health, it’s nothing hectic to them, it’s nothing hectic to them.” (U3)
“Another challenge is that I would have problems at home, but I can’t share them with anyone because they get scared that you will tell everyone even though one can see that they are troubled, they keep quiet.” (U1)
“I think one more thing I just remember is the lack of or totally non-existent participation of a male caregiver, so your daddies are rarely in the pictures, so it is really difficult, especially groups, to get the male caregivers to get them to join in. For them, it is more, I give the money, you know, I give me, that is my responsibility, and it stops there.” (R4)
“I think some of the challenges that are challenging the children with their mental wellbeing, it is some of them, they get, they live with the caregivers, their mothers are not around, and then they don’t get the special treatment that they should get from their real parents, actually, their biological parents, so their treatment from the caregiver and the biological parent is not the same, so they struggle with playing with other children and being comfortable with other children.” (PU1&2)
Protective factors
“Parents who don’t use substances, they take more of an interest, they care about what we do where the child is concerned…the parent will go the extra mile and ask if there’s anything they can do to help…the mother spends time with the kid, sitting with the kid and explaining…if the mother maybe forgot or doesn’t understand in that moment, she will give you a call and say, ‘listen here, I am struggling with this thing, can you please explain it to me?’” (U2)
“No, with the positive parents, even if they are strict, you can find a way to change them…some of them they do listen and change their attitude towards the problem…even if financially they are not stable, they do become positive parents because you can motivate them. You can tell them your life story or explain briefly about the programme. And you’ll see that this person has a dream for her child, and she sees the vision behind this, and they cooperate with us.” (R2)
Safety and Security
Substance abuse
“I think our challenge is more like alcohol abuse, the parents are drinking a lot of alcohol, whereby they don’t take care of their kids because there are lot of taverns there, they want those sugar daddies to give them money, so they tend to leave their children with their grandmothers or maybe the caregivers.” (PU1&2)
“I would say it’s substance abuse and alcohol because uhm, since we live in the township, almost everyone drinks and parties, so, you’ll find that maybe when you visit a home on Monday, you can see that the child is really hungry. Maybe, they didn’t even bath for the whole weekend, they had no one looking after them. So, when you get there, you can tell that the situation is not well.” (R2)
“So that is where then those parents who have challenges end up drunk because they are trying to…calm the stress that they don’t know how to solve. They go to the shebeen looking for anything that they can get in order for them to forget the situation for the child, it’s not good.” (U1)
“We have our drug mothers and fathers, and they are just not there. Seriously speaking when we come there even after 11:00 those houses still look like a bomb hit the place. It is not swept, the carpets are still dirty, the dishes are still there, the children are still in their pyjamas, and they are so black when their pyjamas used to be pink, but it is now black.” (U2)
Economic Challenges
“Another factor is poverty. It makes the child to isolate themselves and feel out of place. It becomes difficult for them to interact with other children because when they compare their situation with that of their friends, theirs is not good and usually begs food or things from others.” (R5)
“We have got families where, like in one room, you will get 14 staying in one room, the other day, she told me she found a family of 25 living in two rooms or something, it is just difficult, and then that is when all these problems come in.” (R4)
Neglect, abuse and violence
“…children always play far from at home, they didn’t notice that the children they must be close from where they are. Sometimes the children came with that they are playing for the whole day without giving them something to eat and the children came late at home.” (R3)
“I think most children, they experience so much abuse in their communities, and sometimes at home. So I think the challenge is, they grow up with this, thing, knowing that this is what is around us, and they don’t really know how to express themselves because they get used to abuse, it becomes a norm in their lifestyles, so as they grow up, I think it affects their emotional wellbeing because they turn up to be those abusive children as well, or bullies, because that is what they are used to at home, that is what they see at home, most of the time.” (U3)
“Some of our clients were not aware that they are abusing the children, until we came and said you don’t hit your child…your child was born not knowing anything, so you need to redirect the child from wrong to right, in a nice way. But in a harsh way, the child won’t understand anything.” (PU1&2)
“This child witnessed the rape and murder of his sister. After his sister was killed, this child used to walk around the house looking for his sister. He got affected emotionally and was always crying. He could not express himself verbally, when there were people around the house and hungry, he would just hit and push them in order to get their attention.” (R5)
“a lot of our parents and grandparents had trauma previously, way back and it still affects them, so we are dealing with that as well…Like psychology of trauma and psychology of living in an environment like this, violence…especially PTSD…they shot somebody there by us and for the first time I saw what a person looks like dead, who has just been shot now…so a lot of people go through that trauma where maybe a mother and a child both get shot at the same time maybe they just knocked them with a bullet and so on. But still it’s a trauma or the gun just goes off while children are on their way to school and guns are going off, so that does affect them.” (U2)
Adequate Nutrition and Good Health
Basic needs not met
“Some parents do ask us, ‘don’t you give something because I’m not working and I have these children; there’s no food, there’s no porridge, there’s nothing’…sometimes you give from your own pocket because you can see the situation, so you give them porridge from your home.” (U1)
“We have children who are 2 years old and they are not bathed for the whole week, sometimes for a month. They walk the whole day just like that or the same nappy that is flapping at the back, or sometimes children under the age of 5 have to go to what we call, skarrel [hustle] they have to go and look for food.” (U2)
System Challenges
“Say for instance my child that is in need of one of these that is not at our clinics and I need a referral letter to…hospital, I’m just not going to go because I don’t have the money, I don’t have the finances to take my child there, so then I don’t go and then obviously it’s going to influence my child negatively in the future because this is the help that she needs but I can’t afford to give to her.” (R1)
Opportunities for Early Learning
Limited resources
Caregivers’ limited education and literacy
“We have very little parents who have matric…it is rural, it is poor, and education levels are low…within the communities that we work with, illiteracy is still a big issue.” (R4)
“Sometimes you do get parents who left school, maybe in grade 6 or an earlier grade and they do not have the experience that the children experience at school.” (R1)
“And sometimes we have parents that say: “I want my child to go to the ECD [early childhood development], but I can’t afford it, but I appreciate the fact that you are willing to help”. So, you do get parents like that, parents who understand that this child needs a foundation for Grade R.” (R2)
“We have got parents who doesn’t understand the word ECD, they think that it should be at the preschool…last I was at a centre, you see parents don’t even care, they just drop off the kids and then come back and pick up.” (PU1&2)
“…the child is looking at the cartoon the whole day, just staring. They just stare, sometimes they’ll sing along as they watch, or they’ll sing the rhyme to you or whatever they hear…it also affects their vocabulary because they don’t know, it’s not like talking face-to-face. They just listen, watching, listening, watching and it keeps them calm, that’s what the parents think but here, in the mind-set, it doesn’t help them with anything for the mind, you see. There’s a point where their cognitive imagination is going haywire because now, they’re playing in a group, they can’t socialise with other children.” (U2)
Child Challenges
Internalising challenges
“It is their upbringing, so it started at home, how the child is raised also affects the child, most of the children, they don’t open up, they don’t show emotions, not because they don’t feel, or they don’t get raised, sometimes it is because of how they were raised, that you are supposed to be strong, and you just carry on.” (U3)
“If you look at circumstances in and around houses then you can pick up. You can see for yourself something…mostly, in most houses there are parents that are drug addicts, and you can see what impact it has on the children because, there is that one house…you can see the children are neglected. So, they definitely are impacted and under emotional strain but because they were not talking, we will not know.” (R1)
Externalising challenges
“The child plays harshly with other children. When you reprimand the child, the child will be doing the same thing after 2 min. The child acts the way they want, they don’t listen to anyone and screams when they don’t get what they want.” (R5)
“Others who don’t have food at home, become thieves, because if they come to the house and see everything there, they are going to take something, in order to help their mothers.” (U1)
“Another challenge could be because of the abuse that they may experience at home, it could be verbal or physical. This will make the child not to have friends or finds it difficult to make friends. Let’s say parents are constantly fighting at home and swearing at each other in front of the child, when he goes out to be with his peers, he hit other children and swear at them.” (R5)
“They will always ask ‘Why are you like this? Why are you so rude?’. And the child will tell the mother ‘Because you did it with me so why must I be nice to someone else?’. I do not know how to do that. I do not know love and respect because you never gave it to me. (R1)