Experiences of Burnout
‘Exhausted/Can’t Sleep’
The reported experiences of autistic burnout were wide-ranging, encompassing both somatic and emotional/cognitive categories. The most common somatic experience was ‘exhausted or can’t sleep’, coded 327 times. This represents 48.5% of somatic experiences and 28.8% of all coded experiences. Users reported significant sleep and energy dysregulation (“I sleep. I just sleep and sleep and I can’t really do anything else” 157.11), excessive sleepiness (“When I had my burnout…I slept 10 hours during the evening and then 3/4 more during the day” 129.40), disrupted sleep: (“…can’t fight my natural day-sleeping rhythm any more and can’t sleep at night no matter what” 144.5), and persistent exhaustion (“I’ve been exhausted for the last 12 years. Just woke up tired one day and now it’s a personality trait” 194.40).
By combining these experiences under a single code, we aim to reflect the pervasive nature of exhaustion as a multidimensional phenomenon in autistic burnout. While sub-patterns of excessive sleep and inability to sleep can be identified, users frequently described them in conjunction with one another, often emphasising how exhaustion persisted regardless of sleep behaviours. This approach aligns with prior research identifying chronic exhaustion as a core feature of autistic burnout (Raymaker et al.
2020; Higgins et al.,
2021) and allows for a holistic understanding of how exhaustion is experienced and expressed.
‘Increased Sensory Sensitivities’
The next most reported experience of burnout was that of sensory sensitivities. Sensitivity to light, noise, temperature, and touch were referenced 167 times comprising 24.8% of somatic experiences and 14.7% of all reported experiences. Notably, hypersensitivity to noise was the most prevalent sensory issue representing over half (85/167) of reported sensory sensitivities. Users described experiences including nausea (“When you talk to me the stimulation makes me nauseous” 144.5), hypersensitivity (“I can hear fluorescent lights just thinking about it” 3.9), and pain (“…noises are making my head hurt but I don’t have a headache” 19.1). Sensitivity to light was also common, representing over a third (60/167) of sensory sensitivities coded. Users described experiences ranging from pain (“every light hurts” 144.5) to hyperawareness (“walking on the stress…everything feels…brighter than usual” 185.2) and avoidance (“my autistic traits such as my aversion to lighting become debilitating” 58.5).
‘Social Withdrawal’
Many users described a need to withdraw from social interactions, both in personal and work settings. This was coded in 33.7% of emotional/cognitive responses and 13.7% of all responses. Slightly more users identified withdrawal from work (81/155) as an aspect of their burnout experience. User experiences related to excessive masking (“My job isn’t physically taxing but I have to do a lot of masking and talking with clients which takes it out of me” 129.6), reduced work capacity (“I had to take two weeks off work, and even now I’m back I’m working at essentially 30% capacity and can barely get that amount done” 157.6), and even resigning (“I had to quit my last job, my dream job because I physically could not hack it. I was grinding myself into the ground”, “I had to quit all my jobs and focus on myself” 194.89 and 2.25). Users reported attempting to implement accommodations in the workplace and having them denied. Examples included: “I asked if I could work 7 hrs a day and they said ‘no we can’t accommodate that, we need you’, so instead of 7 hours a day they get me 0” (154.2), and “…asked for accommodations for 3 12 hour shifts or 4 10 hour shifts…which they said no, so I quit and they got me 0 hours” (154.17).
Social withdrawal manifested in various ways, including withdrawing from groups: “quitting/withdrawing from groups, projects, places, plan” (10.5); limiting interactions: “I do not schedule in person social events any day that I work, and I limit my weekends to no more than two in person social events” (117.2); and even complete withdrawal: “complete cutoff from friends and all social interactions irl [sic] and stop responding to messages” (147.3). For many individuals, the need for withdrawal stemmed from a combination of competing demands, sensory difficulties, and a desire for solitude. This finding, where individuals identify withdrawal as a consequence of burnout, adds nuance to the perspectives of Higgins et al. (
2021) and Raymaker et al. (
2020), who viewed withdrawal as a potential coping mechanism or a response to social expectations, respectively. While some users described withdrawal as a recovery strategy, others framed it as an involuntary symptom imposed by burnout-related circumstances, such as sensory overload or emotional exhaustion. These perspectives highlight the dual role of withdrawal and its complexity, underscoring the importance of understanding its multifaceted nature in autistic burnout.
Furthermore, users consistently emphasised the involuntary nature of withdrawal and reported significant difficulties in obtaining accommodations to manage their needs. This highlights a potential disconnect between the lived experiences of autistic individuals and prevailing perceptions of withdrawal, emphasizing the need for a deeper understanding of its role in autistic burnout.
‘Forgetful/Brain Fog’, ‘Apathy’ and ‘Can’t Talk or Write’
Another shared experience reported by users was ‘forgetfulness or brain fog’. This experience was described as: “short-thinking (my brain activity seems to only go so far, then stops” (10.5); “kept forgetting what I was saying mid sentence” (157.2); “brain fog, forgetfulness…” (63.5); and “by brain is in a constant fog of confusion” (174.1). This symptom accounted for 18.5% of emotional/cognitive experiences and 7.5% of total experiences. This experience included the loss of skills users had developed over the years. As one user described “OMG, memory loss. The loss of skills. My fingers wouldn’t work. I had difficulty sewing, an activity I’ve done for the last 20 years” (5.18).
Brain fog and forgetfulness are well-documented in the existing research, with Raymaker et al. (
2020) and Higgins et al. (
2021) both identifying skill loss, confusion, and executive function difficulties as common manifestations. The impact of these cognitive challenges can be extensive, ranging from difficulties with basic daily tasks to the loss of complex, lifelong skills. A particular noted loss was that of being able to talk or write. This was reported 55 times constituting 8.2% of somatic experiences and 4.8% of total experiences. Users reported occurrences of situations such as: “I went from fully functional to not being able to speak or read” (194.190) through to: “I am losing my ability to verbalize” (227.1). In addressing these changes, users also reported a loss of enthusiasm or interest in various activities, further impacting their overall functioning. Coded as ‘Apathy’, this experience represented 11.8% of emotional/cognitive experiences and 4.8% of total experiences. Users reported “No desire to do the things I love” (10.8) and a “Lack of motivation” (157.14). As one user said “I can’t bring myself to draw any more or do other routines. I feel unmotivated or too low energy doing ANYTHING, even though I want to” (13.1).
‘Physical Ailments’
In addition to the somatic experiences already discussed, users also reported various physical ailments that impacted their daily functioning. These included gastrointestinal difficulties, physical pain including joint inflammation and general malaise. This experience represented 6.8% of somatic experiences and 4.1% of total experiences reported. Users posted a variety of instances including “I’m breaking out in hives, my hair is turning grey, my chest hurts, my sciatica is flaring, my stomach is upset” (134.1); “All my skin hurts…also my bones” (144.5); and “I was vomiting 3 to 6 times a day” (47.7). Previous research on autistic burnout has primarily focused on mental well-being and exhaustion, with limited attention to physical health manifestations beyond fatigue (Raymaker et al.,
2020; Higgins et al.,
2021; Mantzalas et al.,
2022). The present findings suggest that physical ailments and illnesses may be exacerbated during burnout periods, highlighting the need to consider their potential contribution to the overall experience of autistic burnout.
‘Stress, Anxiety and Masking’
Within the emotional/cognitive domain, users frequently reported difficulties with ‘Stress’ (9.8%), ‘Anxiety and Obsessive Thoughts’ (9.8%), and ‘Difficulty masking’ (9.8%). Reported occurrences of stress included “Oh boy, I am getting stressed just thinking about it. I get teased about how stressed I get about change in the activities. I dislike how it makes me feel” (19.8); and “everyday, i take at least two one hour (+) breaks to do nothing but what is relaxing” (117.2). While prior research has highlighted a reduced capacity to mask is a common feature of autistic burnout (Raymaker et al.,
2020; Higgins et al.,
2021; Mantzalas et al.,
2022), increased unmanageable stress has not been documented. While increases in anxiety symptoms were noted by Mantzalas et al. (
2022), they have not been reported elsewhere. The heightened prevalence of stress and anxiety in our findings suggests that autistic people may experience intensified internalisation of fear and worry during periods of autistic burnout.
‘Frustrated, Lack of Focus and No Interest in Food’
Experiences related to ‘frustration’ (5.2%), ‘lack of focus’ (3.1%) and ‘no interest in food/eating’ (4.6%) were reported. Comments such as “…frustrated with the state of the world” (10.5), and “Oh my god yep my tolerance toward things becomes so low and I find myself really frustrated also it sucks” (142.5) demonstrate the levels of frustration experienced when grappling with autistic burnout. Difficulties with focus were also prevalent, with users stating, “I just can’t maintain any focus or motivation at all” (193.5); and “I now have trouble focusing on anything in my free time” (171.1). Food issues ranged from “I’d practically stopped eating” (194.297) through to “I have ‘can’t eat anything’ periods as well. It goes on for days and it is a downward spiral. The more I go without eating, the weaker I get” (131.16). This grouping emphasises behavioural and functional impacts, consistent with the broader themes of frustration, attentional challenges, and physical well-being disruptions.
‘Out of Body Experiences’
Out of body experiences were also reported by some users, representing 3.9% of somatic experiences. Many users characterised these experiences as “dissociating”. Experiences such as “I experience a total disconnect from my body when my mind is spiraling/panicking [sic]” (72.2); and “Have an out-of-body experience” (10.33) were described. One particularly descriptive comment was “The state that I usually call dissociation is an unpleasant sense of being out of my body and working on autopilot, and this comes on as a result of extreme stress, usually in social situations” (10.34).
The reported out-of-body experiences align with previous research linking dissociation and autistic shutdowns to burnout (Mantzalas et al.,
2022). However, as noted in Phung et al. (
2021), shutdowns and burnout, while interconnected, are distinct phenomena. Shutdowns are characterised by internal withdrawal and sensory overload responses, often triggered by acute stress. Our findings suggest that the dissociative experiences described by users may reflect elements of both burnout and shutdown, underscoring the nuanced interplay between these phenomena. Additionally, the observed increases in frustration and difficulties with focus are consistent with the documented loss of executive function skills during autistic burnout (Raymaker et al.,
2020; Higgins et al.,
2021; Mantzalas et al.,
2022).
Self-care
Discussions of self-care and recovery were prevalent among users sharing their burnout experiences, accounting for 19.8% of the coded data within the ‘Self-care’ category. Six codes were identified within this category. Strategies involving the reduction of external stimuli were most frequently mentioned (28.5%), with ‘Reduce external stimulus’ being slightly more prevalent (54.9%) than ‘Reduce social activity’ (45.1%). User comments included: “The best I could come up with was to try to shut out as much stimulus as possible and just get one thing done at a time” (144.13) and “…to get really picky about which social activities I engage in to give myself as much space as possible” (101.2). Some users reported using both methods, demonstrated by comments like “And the burnout starts to feel relieved once I remove sensory problems, stop masking and reduce social interaction for a bit” (63.12).
The next most common self-care methods related to physical care, which represented 28.3% of the self-care codes. Encompassing ‘Physical care – eating and exercising’ (62.0%), ‘Relying on habit to manage’ (24.8%), and ‘Stimming’ (13.2%), these comments highlighted the importance of ‘getting back to basics’ with physical needs and energy regulation through exercise, nutrition, and self-stimulation as strategies for burnout recovery. Some users reported increased awareness of their limitations with food preparation during burnout, and shared shortcuts they employed to address this challenge: “As for food I have things like yoghurt, eggs, cheese, stuff I can either microwave or heat up in the oven. I can’t maintain food prepping” (3.9), highlighting the reduced capacity for food preparation during burnout. Another user stated: “Living off toast, chocolate and baby fruit pouches is fine better eat something than nothing at all” (3.3). While these comments may overlap with reports of reduced interest in eating described in the “Lack of focus” section, their inclusion here reflects a different context. Specifically, these comments emphasise users’ adaptive strategies for addressing burnout-related challenges rather than the disengagement from eating described elsewhere.
The reliance on established routines and habits was also mentioned as a self-care strategy. One user shared, “…i [sic] have a consistent routine I follow at least five days a week, and a ritual every morning with my breakfast” (117.2), emphasizing the value of predictability and structure. Additionally, many comments offered recommendations and encouragement for developing helpful habits, particularly in managing executive dysfunction. For example, one user suggested, “As for executive dysfunction, breaking down your daily studying tasks (or any tasks) into tiny steps could be helpful. Take it one baby step at a time. I like to use visual routine charts, calendars, planners, and habit tracking apps to help me not procrastinate. Also, keep your to do list simple. Since you’re dealing with burnout, it’s best to choose only the most important two or three things to get done and focus only on those. Good luck!” (126.2). Stimming emerged as a valuable self-care tool for managing burnout symptoms. One user poignantly commented, “…find ways to stim that help you regulate and utilize that as a tool rather than it being a bad thing” (46.2).
Users also spoke of using pharmacological methods to assist with the management of their burnout experience. ‘Marijuana’ and ‘Medicine’ comprised 17.2% of self-care with ‘Marijuana’ being reported more often (67.1%) than ‘Medication’ (32.9%). Comments relating to marijuana ranged from “Weed is the only thing that has managed to make me pass as ‘normal’ my whole life” (211.3) to “Ngl [sic], I smoke before I go to work. Makes it so I don’t burn out” (174.5). Medication use comments were mixed with users reporting experiences ranging from “Medication was the only thing that snapped me out of this” (3.96), to “I take Prozac, which is helping put a floor under my bad times so I don’t go quite so far down…” (211.16).
Two more areas noted as helpful in recovering were those of ‘Being left alone’ (12.1%) and ‘Support and disclosure’ (11.2%). While these may appear contradictory, users emphasized the importance of autonomy over their self-care processes for them to be useful. One comment encompassed this well stating “Yes, alone time. Simple and straightforward. Sometimes I need alone time even from my most beloved humans, like one day a week” (144.60). While the need for solitude may be challenging for some to understand, users consistently expressed their need to be left alone, echoing the sentiment, “I just want to be alone, just me, myself and my thoughts. The only things I find myself drawn to are old trees, forests, and running water (waterfalls, streams and rivers), pretty much in that order” (125.3).
In contrast to the need for solitude, users also highlighted the importance of ‘Support and disclosure’. Their experiences varied, with one user sharing, “Talking to loved ones – for me, talking to loves ons [sic] help a lot. Of course, not all the time” (4.2); and “…therapy and supportive family…” (224.4). Users highlighted the value of both ‘Being left alone’ and ‘Support and disclosure’ managing autistic burnout, emphasizing that the effectiveness of these strategies hinged on their ability to exercise autonomy and self-determination in choosing and implementing them. Finally, 2.8% of the coding in self-care related to gaming as a self-care practice coded as ‘Online gaming helps’. This small percentage may reflect its role as a general coping mechanism or leisure activity rather than a targeted burnout intervention. As one user noted “Who DOESN’T play video games to escape? That’s the whole purpose” (12.9).
While recovery and recuperation practices are referred to in the existing literature, there are no empirically supported treatments available for autistic burnout. Our findings align with previously suggest solutions (Raymaker et al.,
2020; Higgins et al.,
2021), particularly those emphasising load reduction, acceptance and support, health, wellness and self-care and addressing unique autistic needs (Raymaker et al.,
2020). This suggests a wealth of knowledge within the autistic community regarding potential recovery pathways, highlighting the importance of incorporating lives experiences into the development of interventions.
Perceived Cause of Burnout
Some users explicitly reported their perceived causes of burnout, resulting in 79 responses, a mere 3.7% of all coding points. Three categories emerged: ‘Functioning in a neurotypical world’ (54.4%); ‘Masking’ (27.8%); and ‘Not recognising taking on too much’ (17.7%). These three categories align with factors previously identified in the literature as contributing to autistic burnout (Raymaker et al.,
2020; Higgins et al.,
2021; Mantzalas et al.,
2024). Many comments that were coded as ‘Functioning in a neurotypical world’ specifically highlighted the challenges of navigating neurotypical workplaces. As one commentor stated “I just left my 9 − 5 job because I was reaching the point right before I would hit Autistic burnout, which left me hospitalized last time. I’m feeling really down on myself for not being able to keep a full time job like everyone else without being too stressed, and could use some encouragement.” (151.1). One poignant comment reported “But for every measure I deploy, I come back to the main issue. I just don’t know how to handle what’s expected of me to survive under capitalism” (209.1).
Autistic burnout attributed by the user to masking behaviours is best described by this commentor; “My Autism went undiagnosed for 31 years and burnout is what lead me to discover it, so thats [sic] years of not managing autism in a healthy way and heavy masking” (10.12). Users who identified an inability to recognize their limits as a contributing factor to burnout often described this struggle in both personal and professional contexts. One user shared: “One of my biggest regrets is not knowing my limits” (151.3). Although these three areas have been linked to the onset of autistic burnout in existing research (Raymaker et al.,
2020; Higgins et al.,
2021; Mantzalas et al.,
2022), the present findings suggest that users on Reddit tend to focus more on sharing their immediate experiences of burnout and discussing strategies for recuperation and recovery, rather than explicitly addressing its causes. This pattern highlights an important distinction between how burnout is conceptualised in research versus how it is lived and communicated in personal experiences. While clinical and research frameworks necessarily emphasise causal pathways as essential to understanding burnout, our findings suggest that in the midst of burnout experiences, individuals prioritise making sense of their immediate state and seeking paths to recovery. This emphasis on immediate experiences over causal analysis appears to reflect the lived reality of burnout, where understanding “what’s happening to me now” and “how to get better” takes precedence over “what got me here.”
This observation does not imply that the causes of burnout are less important or less worthy of research. Indeed, understanding causal factors remains essential for developing preventative strategies. Rather, the relative lack of discussion about causes on Reddit illuminates how burnout is experienced and processed at a personal level, where immediate challenges and recovery needs naturally dominate attention. This pattern suggests that while causal understanding may be crucial for prevention and clinical intervention, it may be less central to how individuals naturally frame and communicate their direct experiences of burnout. This insight has implications for how we approach both research and support - acknowledging that while causal analysis is vital for prevention, immediate support and recovery strategies may be more aligned with the lived experience of burnout.